If you think you’re stupid and nobody in the world will employ you, you’re probably right; if you think every employer is against you and you’re a victim of their prejudice, you’re probably right too. The way you see yourself is the way the world responds to you.
I’m fed up hearing people, especially in Australia where there is so much opportunity, whining about the raw deal they get in life because nobody will give them a job. The reality is that nobody is going to give you anything. You have to earn it. If that hasn’t yet dawned on you, then you are an idiot.
It’s true. In any society there is a small number of people who, because of genuine disability, are and always will be unemployable. My heart goes out to those people. As a society, we do what we can to provide special workshops and other support for them. That’s as it should be in a civilised society.
However, if you are able bodied and functionally intelligent, then it is your responsibility to make yourself employable. You won’t do it by sticking metal objects through your nose, in your eyebrows or anywhere else visible, or choosing to cover your body with tatoos. You won’t do it if you don’t make an effort to educate and skill yourself. Nobody else can do that for you … like birth and death, you have to do it yourself.
My son is 33 and was born profoundly deaf with a fist full of other impairments caused by rubella (German Measles). He has a relatively low level of education because he had difficulty hearing and subsequently understanding classroom instruction. Despite that, his literacy and numeracy levels are quite good and, you know what, he’s never been unemployed. I’ll say that again: he’s never been unemployed.
The type of jobs he has held are at the lower end of the salary scale, but he has always had a job somewhere. He’s had considerable difficulty with some employers because of his lack of hearing, but when he leaves one job, he finds another. Do you know why?
Much to his credit, he doesn’t see himself as a victim. Sure, he’s had his off days and been pissed off that he’s been born with physical impairments, who wouldn’t, but he sees himself as a contributing member of the community. He sees himself employed. Some others with less physical impairment live on a disability pension. Not him. That’s not how he sees himself.
There is now an overwhelming amount of evidence that we are largely masters of our own destinies. Scientists have proven that our thoughts affect the water we drink, the flowers that surround us, our physiology and at some level, the universe we inhabit. Although not yet scientifically provable, there is a large volume of evidence that our thoughts also create our experiences; think success and succeed. Think failure and fail. While the way this works is incomprehensible to us, the principle is so simple it’s incredible.
If you see yourself as a victim in the job market or indeed anywhere else, you can change your world by changing the way you think. As I was accustomed to saying to my students, “You have two choices in life, you can choose to be happy or choose to be sad. Why not choose to be happy?”
Robin
“Think success - Achieve success”
PS: If you’d like to learn more, see some of the Mind Power Books or download a free copy of Wallace Wattles’ The Science of Getting Rich.